Hurt or love make us success? I think Hurt.

Interesting question. To me love bring more love and hurt / pain can only bring more hurt and pain. U may argue that when you r hurt ( by someone/ something) , u sometime suddenly have very strong dedication / energy to achieve a goal ( most of the time because that goal acgievement may help u feel some happiness that u think help u "forget" the hurt/ pain) For instant: when yr girl friend left u, leaving u in deep pain which give u energy to reveign by working hard finding another girl. U may consider it a sucess but I tell u, success in the end NOT the money, car, house or job... It's the happy, love and peaceful feeling u can feel in life. So by feeling hurt, u can never reach any real success. Anyway , this is my very personal view....